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1500 Followers: Thank You Friends!

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Hi Friends! I just wanted to take a little time to thank you for your continued love, support, comments and interactions  between all of you guys on this blog. 

Reaching ‚Äú1500 Followers‚ÄĚ is simply amazing to this little blind man from the UK. I still find it incredible that these posts reach all of you, in all walks of life‚Ķ.It‚Äôs simply Amazing!¬†

Whilst celebrating this milestone…..I feel i need to do something, like a question answer thingy. So how about asking me any question(about me, the blog or anything you like) in the comments below, and i’ll try and answer

May all my thanksgiving overflow to the glory of God

Absalom’s Monument!

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Absalom’s Monument!

(J.R. Miller)

“They took Absalom, threw him into a big pit in the forest and piled up a large heap of rocks over him . . . During his lifetime, Absalom had taken a pillar and erected it in the King’s Valley as¬†a monument to himself¬†. . . He named the pillar after himself, and it is called¬†Absalom’s Monument¬†to this day.” 2 Samuel 18

It has been said that every man lives for a funeral–that is, a man’s funeral often tells what kind of a man he has been. Absalom had already built a splendid monument, which he meant should mark his grave. Instead, however, of being laid away to rest in honor by a weeping nation, beneath the shadows of a noble monument–his mangled body was hurled in dishonor into a pit in the forest, and covered with a large heap of rocks.

It was still true, however, that¬†Absalom built his own monument. His own hand dug the¬†grave of shame¬†into which his body was cast.¬†Sin’s harvest is sure and terrible!¬†

Too many young men think that it is unmanly to be holy, true-hearted, and pure–and that a “fast life” is the manly one. We have, in the story of Absalom, an illustration of the career of one who lived such a life–and we must notice that the story is written out to its last chapter.

The trouble too often is, that men do not think of what the end will be.

A splendid sum in addition!

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A splendid sum in addition!

(J.R. Miller)

“ADD . . .
  to your faith, virtue; 
  to virtue, knowledge; 
  to knowledge, self-control; 
  to self-control, perseverance; 
  to perseverance, godliness; 
  to godliness, brotherly kindness; and 
  to brotherly kindness, love. 2 Peter 1:5-7 

Our verses presents us with a splendid sum in addition! These graces are to be added one to another.

Faith¬†comes first. But faith cannot stand-alone, so we add to our faith,¬†virtue–that is, conformity of one’s life and conduct to the highest moral and ethical principles.

Next we are to add¬†knowledge. Knowledge, of course, of the true kind–wisdom for life, spiritual knowledge, knowledge of God, and of God’s will as found in His Word.

Self-control¬†comes next–this is the key of all noble life. No matter how strong we are, or how much we know–if we have not self-control, then something is lacking. He who can rule himself is strong–while he who lacks self-mastery, no matter what other gifts he may have, is pitiably weak.

Self-control produces another element–perseverance, perseverance in all Christian duties.¬†

Another quality to be added to patience is¬†Godliness–Godlikeness, Christlikeness.

Then comes¬†brotherly kindness–affectionateness and forbearance to those among whom we mingle.

Last of all–love, the crowning gift and blessing!¬†

These elements of character make up Christian maturity.

This good, old couple!

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This good, old couple!

(J.R. Miller)

“They were both¬†righteous before God–walking in all the¬†commandments¬†and ordinances of the Lord.” Luke 1:6

It is a beautiful thing which we read of¬†this good, old couple, Zacharias and Elisabeth–that they were righteous¬†before God. Some people¬†appear to men¬†to be righteous–who before God have no such record.¬†

Real character is what our hearts are–our hearts make us. We ought not to be satisfied only doing well, the things which¬†men¬†can see. We ought to work and live ever for¬†God’s eye.¬†

Sometimes we say that it is does not matter how we do certain things, because nobody will see them. But we should remember thatGod¬†will see them–and surely we should never do careless, faulty work for His eye.

The word “commandments” suggests that the holiness of these people was of a very¬†practical¬†kind.¬†

Some people’s religion is chiefly¬†emotional. They¬†talk¬†about loving God–but they pay little heed to His commandments.¬†

God is pleased with ardent devotions, but He wants us to prove our religion by obedience–doing the things which He gives us to do.

Nothing is more helpful and practical in Christian living!

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Nothing is more helpful and practical in Christian living!

(J.R. Miller)

“Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth;¬†meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful.” Joshua 1:8¬†

The habit of treasuring up a text of Scripture in the morning, to be meditated upon while engaged in the business of the world through the day–is both profitable and delightful. It is as¬†a refreshing spring to a weary traveler!

Nothing is more helpful and practical in Christian living, than the habit of getting a verse of Scripture into the mind and heart in the morning. Its influence stays through the day, weaving itself into all the day’s thoughts and words and experiences.

Every verse in the Bible is meant to help us to¬†live–and a good devotional book opens up the precious teachings which are folded up in its words.

A devotional book, which takes a Scripture text, and so opens it for us in the morning–that all day long it helps us to live, becoming a true lamp to our feet, and a staff to lean upon when the way is rough–is the very best devotional help we can possibly have. What we need in a devotional book which will bless our lives–is¬†the application of the great teachings of Scripture–to common, daily, practical life!

“Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and¬†on His law he meditates day and night!” Psalm 1:1-2

Some professors of religion are like the catbird!

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Some professors of religion are like the catbird!

(Charles Naylor, “How to Fertilize Love” 1920)

There are very many things that may choke¬†out love in the home. One of these is the¬†lack of kindness. If you have grown less kind in your feelings, in your actions, and in your words–then love cannot thrive. Kindness is one of the best fertilizers for love.¬†

There are so many people who have two sets of¬†tones¬†in which to speak–and two sets of¬†manners¬†in which they act. They have their¬†company¬†manners–and their¬†family¬†manners. When they have company–then the voice is soft and pleasant, and the manners are agreeable and kindly. They treat their friends with the greatest consideration; but as soon as their friends are gone, the pleasant voice changes into crossness or harshness and fault-finding–and the pleasantness of manner disappears! In how many homes is this true!

The greater¬†consideration, the greater¬†kindness–is due the¬†home¬†folks. Otherwise, love cannot flourish. If you wish to have love for your home folks–then you must show them the¬†consideration¬†that is due them.

Some professors of religion are like the catbird!
¬†When it is away from its nest–then it is one of the sweetest of the northern warblers; but when it is close to its nest–then you will hear only a harsh, discordant note. It has no sweetness in its voice while at its nest.

In the same way, some people reserve all their kindness, tenderness, and sweetness–for those¬†outside¬†the family circle. Is it any wonder that love dies in such a home?¬†

“Love must be without hypocrisy.” Romans 12:9¬†

If Christ has our love–then He has our ALL!

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If Christ has our love–then He has our ALL!¬†

(Thomas Doolittle, “Love to Christ Necessary to Escape the Curse at His Coming!” 1693)

“If any man does not love the Lord Jesus Christ–he shall be accursed!” 1 Corinthians 16:22¬†

If Christ has our¬†love–then He has our ALL!¬†
Christ never has our¬†all¬†from us–until He has our¬†love. Love withholds nothing from Christ, when it is sincerely set upon Him.¬†
Then He shall have our time, 
and He shall have our service, 
and He shall have the use of all our abilities, and gifts, and graces! 
Yes, then He shall have our estates and our very lives–when He calls for them.¬†

As when¬†God¬†loves any of us–He will withhold nothing from us that is good for us; no, not even His own only begotten Son! Romans 8:32¬†

And when Christ loves us, then He gives all unto us:
  His merits to justify us, 
  His Spirit to sanctify us, 
  His grace to adorn us, 
  His glory to crown us!

Just so, when any of us love Christ sincerely, we lay all down at His feet, and give up all to be at His command and service! “And they did not love their lives unto the death!” Revelation 12:11

Love gives the character to a man, according as the object is, which he superlatively loves. 
As is the love–such is the man. As is the love–such might you boldly call the man.¬†

If he is a lover of honor–then he is an¬†ambitious¬†man.¬†

If he is a lover of pleasure–then he is a¬†voluptuous¬†man.¬†

If he chiefly loves the world–then he is he is a¬†covetous¬†man.

If he loves holiness–then he is he is a¬†pious¬†man.¬†

If he loves the things above–then he is a¬†heavenly-minded¬†man.

If he loves Christ with a predominant love–then he is a¬†Christian¬†man!

“The upright love You!” Song of Songs 1:4


The chain of redeeming love now holds them!

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The chain of redeeming love now holds them! 

(Henry Law)

“For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were¬†redeemed¬†from the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers, but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect!” 1 Peter 1:18-19¬†

Your¬†time¬†is redeemed–use it as a consecrated talent in His cause.¬†

Your¬†minds¬†are redeemed–employ them to learn His truth, and to meditate on His ways.¬†

Your¬†eyes¬†are redeemed–let them not look on vanity; close them on all sights of folly and evil.¬†

Your¬†feet¬†are redeemed–let them trample on the world and climb the upward hill of Zion and bear you onward in the mark of Christian zeal.¬†

Your¬†tongues¬†are redeemed–let them only sound His praise, and testify of His love, and call sinners to His cross.¬†

Your¬†hearts¬†are redeemed–let them love Him wholly, and have no place for rivals.

A redeemed flock should live in redemption’s pastures. The Redeemer’s freedmen should evidence, that they are called to holy liberty, and that their holy liberty is holy service. The chain of¬†sin¬†is broken–and¬†the chain of redeeming love¬†now holds them!

Carry all your concerns to Him‚ÄĒin the arms of faith!

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Carry all your concerns to Him‚ÄĒin the¬†arms of faith!

(James Smith, “The Pastor’s Morning Visit”)

“Casting all your care upon Him‚ÄĒbecause¬†He cares for you!” 1 Peter 5:7

The Lord¬†knows¬†all His people‚ÄĒall their needs, and all their trials.

He¬†thinks¬†upon them‚ÄĒto bless, deliver and supply them.¬†

He keeps His¬†eye¬†upon them‚ÄĒin all places, at all times, and under all circumstances.

He has them in His¬†hand‚ÄĒand will not loosen His hold.

He looks upon them always as His own ‘treasured possession’ . . .
  the objects of His eternal love,
¬† the purchase of His Son’s blood,
  the temples of His Holy Spirit.

They are precious in His sight! 

He knows they are¬†weak¬†and¬†fearful‚ÄĒand that they have many¬†enemies. He teaches them to cast themselves and all their cares into His hands! And He has given them His promise‚ÄĒthat He¬†will¬†care for them.

It is a¬†Father’s care¬†which He exercises. It is a wise, holy, tender, and constant care. Therefore all will be well with you‚ÄĒonly trust Him.

Believe that He cares for you this day.¬†Carry all your concerns to Him‚ÄĒin the¬†arms of faith!¬†Leave¬†all¬†with Him, persuaded that He will manage all by His infinite wisdom, and bring all to a good outcome by His omnipotent power.

Cast all your cares upon Him‚ÄĒas fast as they come in.¬†

Do not worry about anything. 

“Cast your burden on the Lord, and He will support you! He will never allow the righteous to be shaken!” Psalm 55:22

My Father’s eye!

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My Father’s eye!

(James Smith, “The Pastor’s Evening Visit”)

“Your Father‚ÄĒwho¬†sees¬†in secret.” Matthew 6:6

Can anyone hide himself from the Lord in secret places? 

Can I, under any circumstances, escape His notice? 

Impossible! 

The¬†eye of God¬†has been fixed upon me every second of this day; it is now at this moment fixed fully upon me. But it is¬†my Father’s eye!¬†My Father sees in secret!¬†

He sees my¬†needs‚ÄĒand my¬†woes.¬†

He sees every secret working of my foes‚ÄĒand will save me from them.¬†
He sees every secret influence which is likely to injure me‚ÄĒand will prevent it.¬†

He sees . . .
  the secret workings of my heart,
  my hidden thoughts,
  my unuttered desires,
  my soul conflicts,
  my private temptations. 

But He sees also my secret sins!
Every evil thought, 
every improper action, 
every unfitting¬†word‚ÄĒ
passes under His eye!

Solemn consideration this!

May it make me cautious. May it preserve me. . . 
  from yielding to temptation,
  from nourishing sinful thoughts, and
  from acting inconsistent with my profession. 

My heavenly Father sees me! 

He sees me at this moment!

He sees me every moment!

He sees my most secret motives, thoughts, and purposes!

He who thus sees me‚ÄĒhates every sin with an infinite hatred!


From such love ‚ÄĒ may I ever be delivered!

From such love ‚ÄĒ may I ever be delivered!

(J.C. Ryle, “Christian Love” 1878)

Christian love does not consist in approving everybody’s religious opinions. Here is another most serious and growing delusion. There are many who pride themselves on never pronouncing others mistaken ‚ÄĒ whatever views they may hold. Your neighbor may be an Atheist, or a Buddhist, or a Roman Catholic, or a Mormonite, a Deist, or a Skeptic, a mere Formalist, or a thorough Antinomian. But the “love” of many says that you have no right to think him wrong! “If he is sincere ‚ÄĒ then it is uncharitable to think unfavorably of his spiritual condition!”

From such love ‚ÄĒ may I ever be delivered!

At this rate, the Apostles were wrong in going out to preach to the Gentiles!

At this rate, there is no use in missions!

At this rate, we had better close our Bibles, and shut up our churches!

At this rate, everybody is right ‚ÄĒ and nobody is wrong!

At this rate, everybody is going to Heaven ‚ÄĒ and nobody is going to Hell!

Such love is a monstrous caricature! To say that all are equally right in their opinions ‚ÄĒ though their opinions flatly contradict one another; to say that all are equally in the way to Heaven ‚ÄĒ though their doctrinal sentiments are as opposite as black and white ‚ÄĒ this is not Scriptural love. Love like this pours contempt on the Bible, and talks as if God had not given us a written standard of truth. Love like this, confuses all our notions of Heaven, and would fill it with a discordant inharmonious rabble.

True love does not think everybody right in doctrine. True love cries, “Do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world!” 1 John 4:1. “If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching ‚ÄĒ do not take him into your house or welcome him!” 2 John 1:10

Monsters Of Cruelty!

Monsters of cruelty!

(“Solitude Sweetened” by James Meikle, 1730-1799)

Now that I am a father, and know the affection of a parent–would I not defend from every danger–would I not bestow every truly good thing–would I not implore every blessing–on my tender children? Would I not nourish their infant state–correct and educate their childhood–inspect, reprove, and admonish them in youth? Would I allow the dear little creatures–to play with sharp pointed knives–to frolic on the brink of a rapid torrent–or dance around a pit’s mouth? Would I permit them to eat deadly berries–or to put a cup of poison to their tender lips? However indulgent, would I allow them to disobey my commands? And if they labored under any disease which threatened their precious life, what pains or expenses would I spare to procure them relief? If assured that a physician lived somewhere, who could heal them without fail–would I not send to the uttermost corner of the land? would I not travel to the ends of earth?

But, hear me, O parents! If our concern for our children ends only with their bodies–we are monsters of cruelty! Would we pluck them from fire and water–and yet permit them to plunge into the fire of hell, and lie under the billows of Jehovah’s wrath? Will we snatch from them sword, pistol or knife–and allow them to wound themselves to the very soul, with sin? Will we chastise their disobedience to us–and wink at their spitting in the very face of God, by open acts of sin? Are we fond to have them educated and well-bred–and yet let them live in the neglect of prayer, which is the highest disrespect that can be put on the Author of our being?

In a word, is this the sum of our kindness, is this the height of our concern for our dear children–to see them happy in time, flourishing in the affairs of this life–though they end up being miserable beyond description through eternity itself? Will their bodily pain excite our sympathy, and will we do all in our power to have their diseases healed–and yet have no concern that their souls pine under sin, and they suffer all the pangs of hell? Will we not bring them in our prayers, to the Physician of souls, to the Savior of sinners?

I have but one request for all of my children, and that is–that they may fear and serve God here–and enjoy him forever! No matter though they sweat for their daily bread–only let them feed on the hidden manna! Let them toil and spin for their apparel–but let them be covered in Christ’s righteousness! How would I count my house renowned, and my family ennobled, if there sprang from it–not wealthy princes or kings, (let potsherds of the earth strive for such earthly vanities)–but pillars for the temple of God in glory–who shall dwell in the presence of the King of kings–when time is no more!


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